This post is specifically for the sisters during last Pre Graduation Dinner which was held on 28 Feb 09 at Seri Pacific Hotel,Kuala Lumpur.
Actually I was a little bit shocked as some of the sisters intended to take pictures personally between me and her. I never expect sisters to have that kind of request to snap photos with me.
I'm so sorry as I couldn't fulfill your request as I have my own principals.If you wanted to take pics with me,please bring along some of your friends together which to be included in the photos or I need some other brothers together in the pictures.NO PERSONAL PICTURES please.
I'm sorry if yesterday I have invited some of my male friends to join in your "PERSONAL PHOTOS"
I have reasons in doing those things.
1)I had swear to Allah that I will be a good Dai'e and Murobbi.Thus,it is wajib/compulsory for me to avoid anything which will affect my credibility as a Dai'e.I don't want to make "Fitnah" to myself or to Islam itself.Can you imagine,when the "PERSONAL PICTURES" been seen by others?Then people start to make noise saying that:
'How come Nabil can have a pictures with girls?He said Islam is like this and this but he didn't implemented it!Huh..'
or even people will say like this:
Ish3...what kind of Muslim he is?Convey Islam to others but his Akhlaq didn't reflect what he said so..Huh..Blah la!!'
Making worse, it makes my works as Dai'e more difficult if my Mad'u or my Sahabat saw it..
The most important is,Allah will knows that I have broke my swear to HIM..Na'uzubillah..
2)I pray to Allah to give me a good/solehah wife.Thus,in order for that,I have to improve myself to be as soleh as possible.I couldn't imagine one day if I get married and suddenly my wife saw the "PERSONAL PHOTOS" between me and other girls..What's her feeling that time?My husband with other girls?Although she might not say it infront of me,but her sadness couldn't be cured.I don't want to do that to my future wife.
Besides,I tried to put myself in that situation.I also have the jealous feeling if I saw my future wife with other man in a photo.If I felt so,she also may feel the same feeling.
I hope the sisters could understand my stand and we try our best to be a good Muslims.
Our life doesn't finish here,but we will be in either two; Paradise or Hell
May Allah bless and forgives us on what we have done.Ameen...